Troubles !! Often
seems to be like the end of our life when it comes! Sometimes we associate it
with luck where we claim ourselves less fortunate than others; also we tend to
judge the world or God to be unfair for us having all the troubles! As a whole these tendencies tends to happen
due to our very own action of binding troubles with “NEGATIVITY” very firmly
resulting to all the earlier said state or situation. Being negative when
troubled, we often fail to look at certain truths about trouble which are
rather attached to the “POSITIVE” aspect of the troubles itself. The following
are a few truths about troubles based on the positive aspects;
1 Troubles are the opportunity to learn in life
Troubles often
offer the most memorable “experience in life” which educates us as individuals
to make wise decisions, predictions & justifications.
Troubles shapes us into who we are
Individuals are
similar to clay and it takes efforts to shape us into whom we are. Troubles
often inculcate the maturity, patience and umpteen amounts of values which
beautifully shapes us into who we can become to the fullest.
3 Troubles provides the opportunity to know who are our true friends
& family are
Going through
troubles many had identified who are the true friends who stay faithful in
thick and thin as unfaithful ones seems to disappear when we are in rough
waters. Troubles functions as strainers in life to strain out the unworthy out
of our lives.
4 Troubles provides opportunities to change or innovate
A prick in the
feet by thorns would have inspired someone to invent what we call shoes or
slippers today, thanks to the “thorns” today we save our feet from further
dangers, so it is with life, when faced with troubles we may tend to change for
the better or at times innovate something for the better.
Troubles makes life interesting & thrilling
Picture a life
which is all so complete and good without any trouble, any mischief, any
issues…. Would it be nice? Does it have anything to learn from it? Well a life
of such would be good but where would be the fun of living? There aren’t any
thrills and lessons and interest in life of such, troubles makes life
interesting, fun and thrill as we would only learn, appreciate, make decisions,
amend or repent when trouble arises in life.
6 There are no trouble without a solution
Negative individuals often look at troubles as something beyond
repair and or as a doomsday but whereas in reality there is no such a trouble
without a solution, it is just that the solution may or may not be in favour
for the self! This is the fact many fail to accept and often tends take
negativity as an option…
Troubles often doesn’t exceed beyond our capability to solve
Another reality many fail to accept is that there isn’t any trouble
which would grow beyond the capability of one to solve, the worst would be a
person may need the perspective or the intervention of a third party with the
efforts of the self still, being so there isn’t a situation where one would
have troubles beyond the capability of the self! In simple words, the one who
messes it up would surely be able to clear it up; what matters is only how
impactful it would be to the self or others…
The said may be a few positive aspects of trouble, perhaps there are
many more which we fail to see as a result of being caught in the negative
mental frame. As individuals we are prone to take the negative side in life but
the truth, reality and practicality always lies in the positive side. Thus
taking sides are crucial in this aspect. It may be wise to conclude that life
is a learning process; troubles are exercise’s we are ought to take to know
& enhance our capacity as human beings so accept troubles in a positive way
to ensure we come out shaped beautifully just like a rock withstanding the
sculptor’s chisel makes a great sculpture….
Suren
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