"We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons." Jim Rohn
Many matters affect the psychological well being of mankind which causes man to become incapable of functioning to his fullest potential to reach great heights of achievements. One of the most destructive of those matters is for sure “REGRETS” ….
“Regrets” are in real the firmest tool of negativity to cultivate incompetence in the positive man's mind … having it in the minimal amount for the purpose of reflecting on mistakes would be fine, but it has to be banished quick with positivity if it is not, Regrets takes charge over the mind feeding on feelings like guilt, helplessness, depression e.t.c vesting negativity firmly in the mind
Regrets has the tendency of giving a pleasurable feeling when hold on too long just like holding a rose with thorn for days where the pain of the pricing thorns gets deluded by the rose aroma yet the scars and blisters would be hurting and at times may be fatal too in this case fatal to positive mind set
Many fail to understand the actual purpose of regret which is mentioned earlier but rather cling to regret for long, some even hold on lifelong turning it to despair .. Apart from creating a reflection over the done mistake regret does not serve any other well and good purpose. Do think about it with the question of “Can regretting solve the problem?” It is for sure a No!
Yet many tend to be regretting for life.. Instead of amending and moving forward, this traps and bounds their positivity and capability to attain better and greater achievements ! Upon tumbling on a mistake or an issue one should only give a minimal room for regret and a larger chuck should be given to positivity, the regret should be neutralized by positivity and efforts should be taken to amend, correct or make well of the issue if vice versa is done then the doer is getting himself/ herself into a trap of negativity inviting the feeling of despair and disappointment which ends up creating a negative mind incapable of achievements i.e. a life long of lamenting & resentment !
Holding on to regrets only creates more regrets… moving on with positivity creates a healthy mind and great success ….choose wisely!
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