Roses comes with thorns ....

“Love isn’t all roses but comes along with some thorns too” – suren

“LOVE” as it is mentioned is given much of a magical spellbound forever sweet and good feeling effect, well of course love is so for sure but one should not confine love only in that context ignoring the maturity and practicality of love !
The Key here is maturity in Love for the teens and the young ones love comes to them based on biological attraction or better said the hormonal Kick stirs quite a some of effort resulting to the well-known terms of Infatuation, Puppy Love, Mere Attraction etc…

This kind of love never thinks of the practicality of the so call love generally! At this time all are beautiful, love is about being with the loved ones at all times, so called care and protect the partner and so on! The issue of this love is that it often side tracts heavily on the biological aspect, this can be explained as below;

The unity of two souls in life based on love is separated only by a thin line of the love quadrant which is separated by Love, Commitment and companionship on one side and the other side is separated with the Lust or biological side
A truly matured love relationship would have a well balance of both sides of the quadrant and would head towards a long lasting unity of love compared to the love relationship which slides only towards the lust side would normally lose the fire somewhere along the way.

This explains what I said earlier whereby teens today have side tract in love only towards the biological side resulting to love issues, dilemma’s, Social problems, teenage pregnancy and much more, teens should be educated that love has another side where commitment, sacrifice, hard work, patience and blessings is needed.

Understanding that Love to be true needs a well balance mix of the above proportions will contribute to a sustaining relationship rather than being deluded with only mere lust which based on libido desires !

Love is essential in life but only true love is and identifying and being in true love is attained only upon having the maturity and wisdom to do so!

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Suren

Acepting the weakness

“If you can't accept losing, you can't win.” ~ Vince Lombardi

Development takes a hefty price! But it all begins only with accepting the weakness as when there is perfection then there is no room for improvement! Thus it can be said theoretically that presence of weakness comprehends the room for development but not vice versa.

Understanding this theory, it clearly shows that without accepting the weakness we possess then it would never be possible to enhance ourselves for betterment. But ironically many as an individual or even as a community are unable to accept this fact.

Accepting the weakness is considered like self-defaming or self-mockery which is not a substantial, jilting or magnifying the weakness of the self or the community may the issue of the before said self-defaming or self-mockery but acknowledging the weakness is no rather than opening the path towards development !

When a certain individual or a community is reluctant in acknowledging the weakness then they are neglecting the possibility for development and improvement! When someone else tries to acknowledge the weakness in a polite & constructive manner, this may not mean someone is looking down on the self but rather advocating on the chances to improve if it is accepted well!

Many are today having a defensive attitude backed by an in congruent state of ego towards the self or their community. Based on these defensive attitude they tend to shut themselves from possibilities to improvement and advice, and the worst is that they tag or assume those who advise them against this fickle mind thought as ‘anti-establishment’ or a traitor to the community

Many fail to realize that by being able to acknowledge their weakness, they are being bold and courageous enough to accept the reality of themselves or their community making it possible to work the strategies towards an achievable development process

In simple words, if you have a pain and you deny it then there will be no possibility for a cure !
Let’s all be open towards our weakness in order for the path towards development will eventually be open for us or our community!

“First step for development is openness towards weakness” – suren

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Suren

Development Process

“Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position” ~Mohandas Gandhi

Development is a must among humans as the result of consistent development gave birth to civilization . . . but many look at development from the half way of it or better said from where it sound nice i.e. by developing one can achieve wealth, health but actually the step in developments starts with the unhappy statement which is “accepting the weakness” ! ! !

Many individuals fail or omit this stage and focus only on possibilities of development thus when there is a tendency for individuals to choose the inappropriate strategy for development, constantly failing the development or eve developing a terribly false ego by defending strategy’s failure due to the fundamental problem stated before !

Many of us become fighters for strategy which doesn’t seem to work due to its virtue of being inappropriate as it doesn’t comply to the actual weakness of the person or society and this will lead eventually towards despair and disappointments in the far end

One must always adhere to the steps to development by sacrificing the ego of the self and accept that there is weakness in them only then the room for development will be possible, how would one develop if he / she have the mentality that they are perfect? If it is so then there is no need for development! Then there isn’t anything as constant development –i.e. anti Kaizen

Claiming for development without accepting the weakness is a mere time waste thus lets acknowledge the development process from the very basic of it without any ego or wrong belief system and hit the development constantly as the saying goes hand in hand :

“None is perfect except God – Changes & Development is a never ending process”

Just sharing a thought
-Suren-